Here’s how you’ll find a special person, whether it’s your soulmate or something else:

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1. Be yourself

If you are going on a date and meet the person, don’t try to fit into a mold or try to be someone you’re not. Don’t fake it if you’re not feeling it. You should like who you are, whether that means you’re happy with your looks or your personality. Be yourself: do what you want. Don’t use more than one facial expression—if you feel like smiling, smile; if you feel like blushing, blush; and if you feel like smiling, then smile.

Make sure your dating profile is honest and be real. If you’re being honest about yourself, others will be honest back. There’s no reason to pretend to be something you’re not in dating.

2. Let them make the first move

Whether you’re a pick-up artist or not, don’t be afraid to ask for what you want. Not only will it help you build confidence, but it’ll also show you have the balls to ask for what you want. No one has the right to make you feel uncomfortable on a first date, so don’t be shy.

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3. Be bold

Try to be bold and ask someone for a date with the hope of meeting your soulmate. Let’s be honest: not everyone wants to date someone who they’ll eventually marry, but you can’t let that stop you. If you’re going to give yourself to someone, why not give yourself to someone you really like?

Think about asking someone on a date like it’s an investment into you. You’re doing something to show the person who you are, what you’re made of, and why you should be given the chance to be given a chance.

It’s not like you’re guaranteed to get a yes. A lot of people might say no at first, or they might not be as straightforward as they appear. But try it anyway.

If they say no, don’t be offended. Think about it this way: if they said yes, they might just be the one, and you never know.

Read more at How to Find a Prospect for Online Dating | Idobi.

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5. Be confident

Even if you are incredibly hot and super confident in your looks,
So, what’s in store for you when you go to a bar or club to meet people? If you are into the whole meeting singles thing, here’s how to do it.

1. The most important thing is to always be yourself.

I realize we’re coming from an online relationship perspective here, but no amount of confidence will save you if you’re not being yourself. If you’re being yourself and sounding at least somewhat interested, you will make a good first impression. People will want to talk to you. It could be that you’re exactly who someone was looking for. But if you’re coming across as fake or a know-it-all, dating sites are full of people who have been burned. Before you walk in any club or bar, tell yourself to act confident and be open-minded.

2. Dress for success.

Don’t forget to look your best. Whether you’re picking out something to wear on your first date, picking out a job interview outfit, or heading off to a club to pick up some lovely singles, dressing for success can make all the difference in the world. “Clothes do speak volumes about a person,” says Derek Spalding, a Philadelphia-based personal trainer and bodyguard. “You walk into a room with what you’re wearing, and it says a lot about what’s on your mind.” Be sure to wear clothes that fit your body type and body shape. If you’re short, you may want to skip the baggy bell-bottoms, and for someone who’s tall, a good pair of heels will make your legs look long and lean.

For men, Spalding suggests adding a jacket. You don’t have to pay $400 for a Lamborghini jacket from Ferragamo, but if you’re wearing a nice three-piece suit and you don’t have a matching one on hand, it shows that you care. With women, it’s all about looking put together—no matter what you’re wearing. “Whether you’re going for the leggy look or a more classic look, a woman’s legs should be longer than her torso. They should be longer than when standing with her back to you,” says Spalding.

3. Pick a place where you will be safe.

When going to a club or bar alone, you will probably want to pick one that is a little bit more private than the quintessential dive bar. You definitely don’t want to get into an



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